When someone leaves his body in the Dhams, he attains the highest destination as kripa-siddhi. How merciful! Who is behind all this? It is Nitai only, the most-caring father of all conditioned souls, who manifests in the form of the Dhams. He is the one who gives solace in the form of the Dhams. He is the one who gives protection in the form of the Dhams. He is the one who gives everyone a chance to attain kripa-siddhi by leaving the body in the Dhams. Who else can think so much about us? How can we be so ungrateful? How can we not realize and feel gratitude for Nitai’s supreme mercy in the form of the Dhams? निताइ
Nitai broke the Danda of Lord Gauranga because He wanted to show the entire world that He won’t let Gaur give danda (punishment) to anyone who takes His shelter. Danda-bhanga means Nitai saves us from Gaur-Krishna’s punishments.
gaura danda kare jadi tumi rakshaa kara
tumi yaare danda kara gaura taara para
(NDM Chapter 4, Shrila Jiva Goswami’s prayer to Nitai)